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  <description>Discreet advice on divorce</description>
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    <title>Sun, sea…and an STI? How to play it safe on the new romantic front</title>
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    <pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 21:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
    <description>A new relationship can provide a welcome tonic after the upheaval and unhappiness of divorce or separation. A romantic foray, however fleeting, may help to restore self-esteem, open up social opportunities and help you look more positively to the future.</description>
    
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    <title>STIs – what they are and how they’re relevant to divorce</title>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 21:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
    <description>The Clap (gonorrhoea), the Pox (so-called great pox or syphilis), non-specific urethritis (NSU), venereal diseases, (VD) &amp; VD clinics are all historic terms for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), which have been replaced with more current ones – Chlamydia, genito-urinary medicine (GUM), sexual health clinics (SHCs) and GUM clinics. Even STDs have, in the last decade, been superseded by the term sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Why all these changes? Is it purely to confuse Jo/e Public and blind him and her with scientific jargon? Do they have any relevance to divorce matters? The answer is complex, but based upon a number of issues.</description>
    
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    <title>Adultery can cause untold emotional pain – and a dose of “the clap”</title>
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    <pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 22:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
    <description>When a client comes to see me about divorcing their partner because they’ve discovered he or she has been unfaithful, their pain is often red raw. They will usually dwell on the emotional and physical betrayal, and understandably so.</description>
    
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    <title>We’ll meet again – even if we don’t want to</title>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 09:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
    <description>For men.... Unexpectedly bumping into your ex-wife years after you last saw her can be an unsettling experience, particularly if either of you still harbours feelings of animosity or regret.</description>
    
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    <title>We&#39;ll meet again - even if we don&#39;t want to</title>
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    <pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2008 22:45:00 +0100</pubDate>
    <description>For women...
When your marriage ends, it may be your most fervent wish never to clap eyes on your ex again. However, if you have children, there are bound to be occasions - school events, graduation ceremonies, weddings and so on - when the two of you will be in the same room together. Difficult though such events can be, at least you have the luxury of preparingmentally for the meeting well in advance.</description>
    
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    <title>Warning: adultery seriously harms you and others around you</title>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 12:36:00 +0100</pubDate>
    <description>There are no “adultery packages” on which to print the kinds of warnings you find on cigarette packets – but there’s reported evidence this week that playing around can seriously affect your health.</description>
    
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    <title>The good news you won’t read in the newspaper headlines</title>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 15:06:00 +0100</pubDate>
    <description>A study by the Oxford Centre for Family Law and Policy (OCFLP) has found that the perception that fathers are treated unfairly by the divorce courts is wrong. The family justice system is not biased against non-residential parents, it concludes.</description>
    
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    <category domain="http://blog.dianebenussi.co.uk/blog/GeorginaBurrowschildrenlawspecialistatBenussiCo">Georgina Burrows, children law specialist at Benussi &amp; Co</category>
    
    
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    <title>Don’t divorce the grandparents when your marriage breaks down</title>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 10:12:00 +0100</pubDate>
    <description>Sir John Major&#39;s former daughter-in-law, Emma Noble, claims the former prime minister and his wife have little involvement in the life of her autistic son, Harry.</description>
    
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    <title>Want a bargain? Then expect shoddy goods</title>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 07:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
    <description>The price comparison website Moneysupermarket.com has
announced plans to add legal business to its online
portfolio, which in these internet-driven, credit crunch
days seems like a jolly good idea. Shopping around online
for the best deal on products and services is obviously the
way to go in the 21st century.</description>
    
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    <title>Why life can begin at 60..... especially for women</title>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 13:11:00 +0100</pubDate>
    <description>The number of break-ups among couples in their 60s has rocketed to an all time high, according to the latest official divorce figures released last week. Despite an overall drop in the divorce rate, the “silver” age group was the only one where it rose among both men and women – from 12,636 in 2006 to 13,678 in 2007.</description>
    
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