View Article  No formula for a happy marriage
The secret of a happy marriage, according to scientists, is for a wife to be smarter and at least five years younger than her husband.   more »
View Article  Itching for a divorce?
The “seven-year itch”, made famous by the 1955 film of the same name, is a phenomenon based on the assumption that marital dissatisfaction kicks in after seven years – and the temptation to be unfaithful becomes irresistible.   more »
View Article  Why divorce can be good for business
According to a survey published this week, being married is more important than education or having a mortgage to service in helping the unemployed get back to work. The research found that married men are 33 per cent more likely to find a job after being made redundant than those who are single or divorced.   more »
View Article  When divorce can make you feel suicidal
This week, Kevin McGee, the former civil partner of actor and comedian Matt Lucas, was found dead in his flat after apparently hanging himself. He was 32.   more »
View Article  The “retrosexual” way of finding new love
Facebook has become the new Friends Reunited. Just as the website designed to bring together old school friends reignited thousands of playground romances – and broke up countless marriages as a result – so “second generation” social networking sites such as Facebook are also being used to track down lost loves.   more »
View Article  Time to stop 50-50 divorce settlements?
One of the country’s most senior family lawyers, Baroness Deech, has criticised court awards to ex-wives of half a couple’s wealth. She says settlements that keep women in comfort at the expense of their former husbands should be scrapped – on the basis they are unfair to men and demeaning to women.   more »
View Article  Happiness is....having the whole bed to yourself!
A sleep expert claims the secret to a long and happy marriage could be having separate beds. He might also have added that one of the best things about getting divorced is having the bed to yourself!   more »
View Article  When staying married, even in your 60s, can be The Weakest Link
She is known as “The Queen of Mean” thanks to her acerbic presentation style on The Weakest Link. Yet even someone as tough and resilient as Anne Robinson found divorce to be an extremely painful process.   more »
View Article  Sign a pre-nup to pre-empt the risk of financial meltdown
John Cleese’s divorce from wife number three, Alyce Faye Eichelberger, has reportedly culminated in the actor and comedian being forced to hand over nearly £12.5 million of his fortune. The payout is expected to reduce the 69-year-old’s overall wealth to about £10 million and may mean that she is worth more than he is.   more »
View Article  Don’t fling your fortune away
Pictures of Samantha Burke showing off her baby bump have appeared on the internet. The part-time model, who is seven months’ pregnant, looks happy and excited. As well she might do. For the 24-year-old American is believed to be demanding nearly £90,000 a year from the baby’s father, British actor Jude Law - £6,000-a-month child maintenance and £1,200 a month for rent and bills.   more »
View Article  Warning: divorce can seriously damage your health (but so can staying in an unhappy marriage)
Divorce severely damages people’s long-term health, even if they remarry, according to new research. The impact of marriage breakdown or the death of a spouse continues to have a “lingering, detrimental” effect on physical wellbeing because it affects the body’s immune system, says a study carried out at the University of Chicago and John Hopkins University, Baltimore. This is despite the fact someone may have moved on emotionally and found happiness in another relationship.   more »
View Article  Truly, madly, deeply?
Being madly in love is widely seen as the best recipe for a successful marriage. According to research published this month, however, love is little more than a starting point.   more »
View Article  Politicians are divorced from the reality of Family Matters
A think-tank run by former Conservative leader Iain Duncan Smith wants to see a Tory government bring in a compulsory three-month “cooling off” period to prevent what it considers to be ill-though-out quickie divorces.   more »
View Article  Pre-nuptual agreements – the way to go?
Pre-nuptial agreements (PNAs), in which a couple set the financial terms of their divorce before they get married, have held legal sway in America and much of Europe for some years. In England & Wales, however, PNAs are not enforceable and, until recently, couples could not rely on the courts holding a couple to the terms of the PNA.   more »
View Article  Settling out of court can help to take the bitterness out of divorce
The first high profile ex-couple to feel the effect of new legislation that allows the media into family courts in England and Wales are Earl Spencer and his estranged wife Caroline.   more »
View Article  Why closing down can help you open up
Mobile technology is a wonderful invention. It allows us to keep in touch with work colleagues, friends and family wherever we happen to be and at whatever time of the day. The likes of iphones, email and social networking internet sites allow us to communicate with people we might otherwise not hear from and aid us in our business lives. They keep us in the loop - enabling us to be “out there” even when we’re tucked up bed.   more »
View Article  When both parents are not always better than one
A study carried out by researchers at Cornell University, New York State, found that youngsters whose parents regularly argue are more likely to drop out of school, use drugs and binge drink. They are also more likely to have children early and outside marriage, as well as experience the failure of their own relationship.   more »
View Article  Divorce lawyers can be a shoulder to cry on for partners left in the lurch
If you watched the latest series of The Apprentice, which ended on Sunday, you will be familiar with contestant Lorraine Tighe, a 37-year-old single mother of two daughters, who narrowly missed out on a place in the final.   more »
View Article  The importance of maintaining bonds with half- and step-siblings
The Press has devoted many column inches to the apparent end of the marriage of singer Peter Andre and model Katie Price, aka Jordan – a relationship born and played out in the glare of publicity. The media spotlight has also fallen on their three children.   more »
View Article  Why grandparents can be the silver lining to the darkest cloud of divorce
More than a million grandchildren are not allowed to see their grandparents, according to a new report by the Grandparents’ Association.   more »
View Article  When discretion is an important part of divorce
The opening up of family courts across England and Wales to the media – as part of a government bid to boost public confidence in the system – has prompted concern that people’s privacy may be compromised.   more »
View Article  Why media access to family courts is for better rather than worse
Journalists were allowed into family courts in England and Wales for the first time last month as part of a government bid to boost public confidence in the previously “behind closed doors” system.   more »
View Article  Stay married if you want to be healthy and wealthy in old age
Being financially well off is one of the keys to a longer, healthier life, according to a Government-backed study carried out for the Economic and Social Research Council.   more »
View Article  Time to divorce is now if you want your life to recover with the economy
The expression “timing is everything” has come back to haunt Brian Myerson, a wealthy City tycoon who last month failed in his bid to renegotiate his multi-million pound divorce settlement on the grounds he had been wiped out by the recession. A judge told him he was responsible for agreeing the settlement and just because his shares had fallen in value since then, it didn’t mean he was legally entitled to change it.   more »
View Article  How empty nesters can lead fuller lives
The start of the school summer term and for many teenagers it will be their last. Once it’s over and their exams are out of the way, they’ll be off to university or on a gap year abroad. Exciting prospects for them – but a gloomy one for parents who dread their “babies” flying the nest.   more »
View Article  Smile and the world (and your spouse) smiles with you
If your marriage is teetering on the brink, have a flick through your family photo album. Scientists reckon it is possible to predict whose marriages will fail by looking at snapshots taken decades earlier. Those with the brightest smiles, they say, are more than three times more likely to forge a strong relationship than those who frown their way through family outings as a child or teenager.   more »
View Article  Discretion and sympathy are at the heart of the niche law practice service
Cold calling is irritating at the best of times; if you’re feeling emotionally fragile, it can be very upsetting.   more »
View Article  Why more divorcing couples are no longer settling out of court
The knock-on effects of the recession are myriad and the divorce process is no exception. Already we have heard how some couples are opting to stay together to preserve their dwindling assets, while others are being forced to live in the marital home after dissolving their marriages because they can’t sell the property.   more »
View Article  Why Facebook is no match for face-to-face relationships
As someone who has no desire to get involved in social networking internet sites, I am somewhat baffled by their allure. Nevertheless, I am prepared to accept they are fun, sometimes useful and mostly harmless.   more »
View Article  Why the launch of a divorce fair is something to celebrate
On the face of it, a “divorce fair” might seem an incongruous idea. Fairs, after all, are usually jolly, carefree events. Yet the UK’s first such fair – officially called the Starting Over Show – held in Brighton last weekend focused on the positive side of relationship break ups and life crises. Practical help, including legal advice, childcare-friendly business ideas, therapies such as reflexology and health and makeover tips were all on offer at the event.   more »
View Article  A bad marriage can seriously damage your health – if you’re a woman
A few months after an Italian study found that the strain of having an affair can cause a potentially fatal aneurysm, there is evidence that an unhappy marriage can also take a toll on people’s health.   more »