View Article  Loneliness and the most depressing month of the year
I’ve not done any proper research, but it strikes me that February is the most depressing month of the year......   more »
View Article  A betrayed spouse: the last to know - but the first to act?
The photograph said it all: Lady Linda Macdonald was pictured in the press this week the day after a national newspaper revealed the ‘intimate’ relationship   more »
View Article  How to deal with Valentine's Day when love is not in the air
For lovebirds, Valentine’s Day is a high point on the calendar; for people in the throes of divorce, February 14 can be a heart-rending occasion.   more »
View Article  Tipping the power scales in your favour
Imagine, if you will, a pair of perfectly balanced scales. On one side is the husband and on the other, the wife. The scales are evenly balanced because the power in the relationship is divided equally between them. This is the ideal scenario.   more »
View Article  Blue Monday, blue every day
If you were feeling down in the dumps on Monday, you can take solace in the thought that things are unlikely to get any worse this year. Or, at least, that’s what the experts say.   more »
View Article  Don't put off doing today what might not be possible tomorrow
We are all familiar with the phrase ‘don’t put off until tomorrow that which can be done today’ and when it comes to divorce, the saying has particular resonance.   more »
View Article  New Year, new beginning?
A survey published on Monday ‘reveals’ what I’ve known and written about for a very long time – that the start of the first full week of the year is when people most commonly decide their marriages are over.   more »
View Article  Putting your love affair on hold this Christmas might save your marriage
Christmas is a particularly trying time if your marriage is in crisis, but can be even more difficult if you’re enmeshed in an adulterous relationship.   more »
View Article  A good marriage is best, but a good divorce can be better
Tory leader David Cameron this week signalled he is ready to introduce tax breaks for married couples.....   more »
View Article  Why divorce doesn't have to mean a broken Christmas
Christmas can be a stressful time even for happy families, but for fragmented ones it is often little short of a nightmare.   more »
View Article  How NOT to get divorced after Christmas
A new survey has picked up on something I identified long ago – and is the subject of my book, published last year   more »
View Article  Good father, bad father
Strangely, perhaps, there is no correlation between the paternal behaviour of a married father and a divorced one.   more »
View Article  If you can't sleep - write!
In the early stages of divorce, it is often difficult to sleep. Quite apart from the physical absence of your ex-partner beside you, you’re so very, very tired, yet at the same time overwrought, angry, upset and anxious about the future.   more »
View Article  Be honest with children
For parents whose marriage is disintegrating, the biggest worry ought to be how this will affect the children.   more »
View Article  Revenge is a dish best not served at all
When you’'re going through a divorce, it is entirely natural to experience a raft of extreme emotions, from bewilderment and outrage to grief to regret.   more »
View Article  The changing nature of friendships
Divorce doesn’t just mean splitting up with your spouse; it can also mean losing some of your friends.    more »
View Article  Paying the price of a ‘cheap’ divorce
Sir Paul McCartney is said to be worth circa £825 million, so can afford to hire one of the country’s most prominent and expensive lawyers, Fiona Shackleton   more »
View Article  Letting down the stiff upper lip
Divorce is probably one of the most painful experiences anyone ever goes through.   more »
View Article  Making the most of kids’ contact visits
Ask any mother with children under the age of 10 how much time she gets to herself and she will give you a blank look   more »
View Article  Snuggling down in the centre of the bed

 

When I first split up with my now ex-husband, I kept rigidly to ‘my’ side of the bed. I ...   more »

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