View Article  How NOT to get divorced after Christmas
A new survey has picked up on something I identified long ago – and is the subject of my book, published last year   more »
View Article  Good father, bad father
Strangely, perhaps, there is no correlation between the paternal behaviour of a married father and a divorced one.   more »
View Article  If you can't sleep - write!
In the early stages of divorce, it is often difficult to sleep. Quite apart from the physical absence of your ex-partner beside you, you’re so very, very tired, yet at the same time overwrought, angry, upset and anxious about the future.   more »
View Article  Be honest with children
For parents whose marriage is disintegrating, the biggest worry ought to be how this will affect the children.   more »
View Article  Revenge is a dish best not served at all
When you’'re going through a divorce, it is entirely natural to experience a raft of extreme emotions, from bewilderment and outrage to grief to regret.   more »
View Article  The changing nature of friendships
Divorce doesn’t just mean splitting up with your spouse; it can also mean losing some of your friends.    more »
View Article  Paying the price of a ‘cheap’ divorce
Sir Paul McCartney is said to be worth circa £825 million, so can afford to hire one of the country’s most prominent and expensive lawyers, Fiona Shackleton   more »
View Article  Letting down the stiff upper lip
Divorce is probably one of the most painful experiences anyone ever goes through.   more »
View Article  Making the most of kids’ contact visits
Ask any mother with children under the age of 10 how much time she gets to herself and she will give you a blank look   more »
View Article  Snuggling down in the centre of the bed

 

When I first split up with my now ex-husband, I kept rigidly to ‘my’ side of the bed. I ...   more »

View Article  INTRODUCING OUR BLOG
I’m a divorce lawyer, running a divorce firm with a difference.    more »